Finally!! I moved!!!!!!!!!!

Jan. 23rd, 2024 09:03 pm
mimitchigotchi: my melody sanrio (melody happy)
So, I'm finally moved away from my mom. I'm so glad to be away from her toxicity. It's so much better with my bf's mom... plus he can visit whenever he wants.  When I do chores here I actually feel appreciated. And it's much more relaxed and not anywhere near as strict. 

The only major downsides is getting everything changed over as far as address, heaven forbid my bf's mom doesn't take her meds right, and the rent/utilities are double! But overall I'm literally paying for peace and some kinda comfort. 

Also, my Lyfts to doctor's offices actually find me better. .w. So, yay! No more GPS sending them to the garbage bin.

Also, my bf's mom hasn't had that guy over smoking weed again.... he was a loser and just using her for a place to smoke and dumb crap. The apartment is no smoking so yay.
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So many ppl need therapy....

Jan. 5th, 2024 09:17 pm
mimitchigotchi: precure (Huohuo)
The more I see my bf's mom's Facebook the less I want to be around her.... She needs a freaking journal to post the stuff she does... cause the majority of ppl don't want to see it. Ngl, I made it so I didn't see her posts anymore. Once I move in I don't want to know what she thinks of me. Probably gonna be all negative. I may need to help her get Medicaid with incentive to work... that way she can manage her meds better and maybe get actual help...

I really can't afford to move in with her.... Even with EBT raised this is going to be a hell of a penny pincher. All to get away from my mom's abuse... to hopefully not a worse situation.

I need to set boundaries, healthy ones, with my bf's mom. Not later, but now. No more being a pushover and being treated like hot garbage by women with bad mental health. I go to therapy and get great skills that work with normal people.... but my mom and my bf's mom are really not normal...

I wish my bf had a dang job already!!!! ;W;

I can't afford my hobbies now...
That's literally all I have in life outside my bf... 
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I kinda made up with mom for now...

Nov. 20th, 2023 10:08 pm
mimitchigotchi: mamegoma san-x in space (space mamegoma)
I also had to push her car to the condo parking spot from the mail box. Her luck is terrible...

I'm talking to Mom again but mainly cause when I do inevitably move away I need to have a way to get my crap out of the condo.

Also, my brother has been chewing her out recently and saying what I can't to her. He sees my FB posts about her. Though I post most of my rants here...

I need a recent benefit letter from the social security office ASAP. I have less than a week cause I need it for me and my bf's mom to move into the apartment...

My bf shaved his beard. He looks so young. It's weird cause he's always gotten facial hair. He's 26 and has a cute face and chubby chipmunk cheeks.
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Bloop.

Nov. 17th, 2023 10:39 pm
mimitchigotchi: mamegoma san-x in space (space mamegoma)
My brother had a long talk with our Mom and fussed her out for 'being a d*ck', in his words, not mine. Still not gonna talk to her a while. She can't keep doing that stuff without having any consequences.

If my brother and his wife were in the same situation as me and my bf she'd have had them in a heart beat. But my mom made a crappy impression on my bf then continued to be crappy. And he didn't give her many chances to screw up. He's not the kinda guy to take crap from people.

My bf's mom and I put in an application for a 2 bedroom. It'll be tight. Really tight. But I can do this. I just need to get more art commissions!
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