Someone sure could think about gratitude.
Nov. 28th, 2024 02:35 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
mimitchigotchiWell, my bf and I cleaned his mom and her boyfriend's garbage leftovers and expired crap from the fridge. After that, we took the shelves out and cleaned them and cleaned the inside of the fridge. This could have been avoided if his mom and her bf would have cleaned up as they went like responsible adults.
I've been practically the only person ever doing dishes. As usual it all gets thrown in the sink and if I don't do it the mess will pile up so I'm forced to.
This evening she was complaining that she cleaned her room and threw away or donated some of her hoarded mess and that she is the only one who cleans. Yes, you should be the person who cleans after yourself. She even said she needs an award for all she does and that she's the oldest in the apartment and should be able to retire. Even retired people clean after themselves. She should be glad she's not incapacitated in a nursing home.
She also was going on about cooking the Thanksgiving dinner that I got from the food bank and how it was such a bother to cook all the time. She harassed me the other day and pushed me into agreeing to having a sandwich. She's always bothering me to eat her and her boyfriend's cooking and then tries to use it against me later. After Thanksgiving I'm not going to let her cook a thing for me. I thought maybe it was a mental health thing and that with her antipsychotic she might be decent. No. Still a manipulative, lazy, narcissist.
She actually tried to add me to Facebook again. Declined with no hesitation.
I will admit, she cleans the bathroom and sweeps/vacuums her area on rare occasion. But most of the time she sits there and watches TV and makes messes with her bf. If everyone just cleaned up after themselves, things wouldn't get so overwhelming.
Also how in God's name did she NOT KNOW that I'm autistic? Not that it would change anything. She still will treat me like trash either way.
And her saying it's nice to come home to clean dishes kinda peeves me off. It sure must be!
Also, she's mooching with no job or income still.
I've been practically the only person ever doing dishes. As usual it all gets thrown in the sink and if I don't do it the mess will pile up so I'm forced to.
This evening she was complaining that she cleaned her room and threw away or donated some of her hoarded mess and that she is the only one who cleans. Yes, you should be the person who cleans after yourself. She even said she needs an award for all she does and that she's the oldest in the apartment and should be able to retire. Even retired people clean after themselves. She should be glad she's not incapacitated in a nursing home.
She also was going on about cooking the Thanksgiving dinner that I got from the food bank and how it was such a bother to cook all the time. She harassed me the other day and pushed me into agreeing to having a sandwich. She's always bothering me to eat her and her boyfriend's cooking and then tries to use it against me later. After Thanksgiving I'm not going to let her cook a thing for me. I thought maybe it was a mental health thing and that with her antipsychotic she might be decent. No. Still a manipulative, lazy, narcissist.
She actually tried to add me to Facebook again. Declined with no hesitation.
I will admit, she cleans the bathroom and sweeps/vacuums her area on rare occasion. But most of the time she sits there and watches TV and makes messes with her bf. If everyone just cleaned up after themselves, things wouldn't get so overwhelming.
Also how in God's name did she NOT KNOW that I'm autistic? Not that it would change anything. She still will treat me like trash either way.
And her saying it's nice to come home to clean dishes kinda peeves me off. It sure must be!
Also, she's mooching with no job or income still.
