More context.

[mimitchigotchi]

For more context on a previous post, my bf and I were talking amongst ourselves about how silly and humorous his grandma did something in the kitchen and our conversation got butt into by his mother who complained that I don't cook (for her) and acted like I was being ungrateful to her mother. That wasn't even what we were talking about. She isn't entitled to me waiting on her by default because she's my boyfriend's mother. She can't be bothered to build a normal and healthy relationship with me over time without overstepping boundaries first. She hasn't done anything but nitpick, pester, and harass me so I really don't feel the need to even interact with her. 

To be honest she's just like my mom. My mom never really earned my trust as a child or adult and just because she is mom she feels entitled for my time and for me to bend over backwards for her. Not just for things from me, but now even my sister in law. Sadly my side of the family is all cooped up in a living situation and my mom's so toxic things are a living hell now. Escaping toxicity just sucks.

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Tbh

[bloodyboop]

She kinda sound like one of those boy moms, is there anything you can do to move?

Re: Tbh

[mimitchigotchi]

If there was something I could have done I'd not have lived with toxic mothers to begin with. -_-; Why I have bad luck with anyone female I don't know. I have had a few actual good female friends that I'm thankful for. It saddens me to feel lonely cause most females just.... are totally different. I wish my bf would get a job and get me out of this place. I'm starting to think I'll die of stress first.

Re: Tbh

[bloodyboop]

Yeah honestly same (life is getting better for me but it’s taking a while lol)
Is your bf able to do a job? Maybe you can open commissions?

Re: Tbh

[mimitchigotchi]

My bf is having issues with a lot of things stopping him from finding work right now.

As for commissions. It was very stressful doing them. Even when I did I didn't make enough to do anything really. Plus SSI is weird about that stuff. If I make over a certain amount I'm supposed to report it. So I don't want to go over it or complicate stuff.

Re: Tbh

[bloodyboop]

Ahhhh I see, you could tr donations on other sites like etsy but like you said it sounds tiring, i hope you guys can figure something out or maybe live with someone else because this sounds like a pain ( I was able to recently!!)

Re: Tbh

[mimitchigotchi]

I'm really hoping we can get to a good spot sooner than later! I'm glad you got to a better spot recently. :)

Re: Tbh

[bloodyboop]

I hope so too! ! Your sitch sounds like a hassle
(For me I just gotta use a different device soon lol)