APS what?!!!

[mimitchigotchi]

Someone contacted Adult Protective Services on my bf's mom.

I'm scared that they'll remove me from the apartment because I don't know where I'll be going. 

I'm scared that they will contact her then she comes back to the apartment angry and harms me.

I'm scared because I don't want my boyfriend's family upset. 

My boyfriend? I don't think he's gonna blame me if she's in trouble to be honest. He is on my side obviously. I mean, he IS my other half.

The people DID ask my address and my number and age...

They asked what mean things she did too.

This is so weird.

Comments

Idk

[bloodyboop]

You guys MIGHT have to find a different roomate or housing program
BUT
i dont think theyre gonna do that
if anything SHE might get kicked out

Re: Idk

[mimitchigotchi]

If she did I still need a new place cause I can't afford it. Since we qualify together I wasn't allowed to terminate the lease without replacing myself. That sucked cause I wanted to move back with my mom. Now it's a full house with the rest of the family and I can't fit. Legally there needs to be a certain amount of rooms per adult/couple and for certain aged children. So it's crammed with a kid getting ready to be aged to have his own room...

Re: Idk

[bloodyboop]

Why cant you move with your mother currently (btw once i get a job i wanna give you some money!!)

Re: Idk

[mimitchigotchi]

My brother, sister in law, a 5 year old, and a 5 month year old live with my mom. It's crammed. Also in Virginia there's a law that requires a bedroom for each adult or a couple and kids over a certain age. :/

Re: Idk

[bloodyboop]

Ohhhhh well that makes sense
since youre an adult i think you in particular will be fine

Re: Idk

[mimitchigotchi]

I'm seeing my social worker tomorrow to start calling some subsidized housing places I have on a list.

Nothing happened with Adult Protective Services that I know of. Might have made things worse tbh.

Re: Idk

[bloodyboop]

It's good you two are working something out at least!! It'll probably be a better place to live

Re: Idk

[mimitchigotchi]

Only issue is that the waiting lists are probably really long.

Re: Idk

[bloodyboop]

Im doing a similarthing and yeah, theyre loooooooong but its worth it and theyll help you out all the way through

Re: Idk

[mimitchigotchi]

All the waiting lists I got ahold of were closed or I need to get to their office for a physical form. I'm going to need to ask my social worker to take me to get some forms to fill.

Re: Idk

[bloodyboop]

Ok, it should work out!!

[uberdilettante]

I am hoping for the best possible outcome for you!!!!

[mimitchigotchi]

Thank you!!!